理所当然
好多人都会抱着理所当然的心态去做人...
别说我没有...我也是,但是自从我看了一本佛书,我慢慢地改变了...
那本书说到:"如果有人对你好,你觉得是理所当然,天经地义,不容置疑的话,那你那份感激的心就会顿时消失得无影无踪..."让我大胆地为这本书打个比方吧.一位母亲劝女儿少吃点,如果女儿的心态是:"她当然要我少吃点咯,如果我少吃点,她就可以在朋友面前炫耀她女儿的身材有多么棒.其实事实才不是这样呢,其实母亲是担心女儿的健康才会叫她吃少点.不要每次认为我妈妈当然要对我好咯,因为我是她女儿嘛...我的我的,事实上她真的是你的吗?就很像"我老公",他真的是属于你的吗?我妹妹当然就一定要帮我做工咯。。。其实事实是这样吗?我的!!!我的!!!其实没有一样是你的,他们迟早会离开你,你出身是两手空空,敢问你死后能带着什么而死吗?往往这世上就是有很多人不懂得感激,什么都觉得理所当然。其实要感激并不是很难,只要抱着珍惜每一段他人给你的一切,不要事事抱着理所当然的心,自然而然就会发现你身边的人其实对你不差.
在我身边的人,我希望你们看完了后会有所思考,珍惜身边的人。其实我更希望*会看到及有所体会,不要再觉得你没有错,旁人已经帮你了,不是人人都想找吵架,我也很明白你的立场和为人,只不过有时说话不要那么理所当然,觉得我们一定要帮助你,好好的聆听,聆听才是你现在最需要的,金钱不是全部。。。珍惜眼前人。。。
My Sem Break...
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Yup...Is always true that we said"休息是为了走更长远的路"...So when u plan to have a long way to go, before that u must have a rest...hehe^^...
This sem break i feel like very boring... but i like bored...Y i say so?Because i hate busy,that's all...haha...
But...I also cant say all of my sem break totally boring...I have done a lot of thing that i wish to do when i having my test... But still got a lot of thing that i wish to do during my final exam doesn't do at all... Man are always like this... When u very free, u can do what u want, u won't do... But when u are very busy, u will think "when i finish my work, i want to do this and that"... After u finish all ur test... the thing u do is nothing... because u always will say "aiya...next time la..."
Time is precious, so i hope in this sem break i can do a lot of thing that i wanted to do...
- Accompany my family & my friend.
- Bath my dog.
- Work for my brother.
- Sleep as much as i want.
- Watch "公主嫁到", "康熙来了" and some new Hong Kong drama.
- Sing K
- Watch movie
- Shopping
- Travel
- Do facial
- Bring my aunt go pray.
- Yamcha
- Go pak to.
I think that's all because my sem break have only 3 weeks...hahaha^^
Happy Holiday...
♡
Study week==
Time pass very fast...
I feel like i m still a freshman in Utar... But the fact is sem 1 is going to end soon AND final is coming.
My brain still like a empty ball... haiz... But must work harder on this study week...
Almost of my classmate i ad knw... happy^^
This is my classmate....hehe^^all look like very happy right?hahaha...it's mayb the last physic class... erm...and the last day for sem 1...
Dr. Lee & CE students...
Insomnia
This is not the 1st time i can't slp at night in kampar...
A lot of harassment in my brain wander between my little stupid brain...
sucking my blood from flowing...
haiz...fan ar...
WHY???Why need to know again all the people???Why can't we just study with old friends in PJ campus???
I very lazy to meet new friend and start over and over to introduce myself but i can't survive without friend...
no man in an island...
die liao lo...
my name is bla bla bla...
my hp no.is bla bla bla...
T.T
But i dunno y my housemate they are very enjoying in making friend...
some of them also trying to help me in this field~~~
omg...
2morrow got practical...die la...i very scare i can't do well infront of my lab partner...
she is a A-level student...seem like very geng chao...
make me fear...and feel like helpless...
so,i need to jiayou to know more of my classmate well 2morrow...
i hope 2morrow my general physic's tutor won't call me go out to answer the question la...
i really dunno how to do the question ...
i very scare 2morrow my fren will look down on me when i tell them i dunno how to do the tutorial question...
SO, i really really hope that god will help me 2morrow...
Another thing that make me "fan" is...
ride bicycle alone...
i dun like to ride bicycle alone...
lonely...
very far...
but nvm la...
i need to learn how to be independent...
sue fien said wanna accompany me again...
but this time i reject le...
She always very sacrifice herself and accompany me go to school earlier...
she very good to all of us...
carol also very good she always fetch us...
THANK YOU!!!
Next,
alot of assignment, mid-term and quiz are coming soon,
this make me crazy...
i scare...
but it is useless to scare infront of challenge...
i know...
but...
what m i doing now???
HAIZ...
study la!!!
ok la...today write until here la...i want to gong xi myself le...finally i feel slpy le...
actually i still got alot of thing in my brain to "fan"
but i scare 2morrow i can't wake up...
so。。。
GOOD NIGHT LO...
38 life...
The video can show how 38 we are...
school start....
starting to have a boring life...
homesick...
cycle...
hot...
keep connected to the internet...
although the school have started but haven meet a new friend...
failure...
can't stand the whether here...
maxis line suck...i can't call my family...
network here also suck...
therefore,we boring until singing outside my room...
ONE WORD CAN DESCRIBE LIFE IN KAMPAR "BORED"...
but...
NVM, I HAVE MY 38 FRIEND...
That's all...my boring and 38 life...
♥Utar Live ♥
♥23/5/2010
I came to kampar,Perak to take my degree at Utar...Go kampar study,can u believe it?it takes more than 5 hours journey from my hometown,melacca. I am a person that alway like to stick my family but now i need to go so far to study it really a breakthrough for me. Although i have came here less than a week time but i miss my family so much...much...much!!!I am going to crazy when i reached kampar,it was too hot for me...eh,nonono...is for all the people that come all the ways to kampar for study or work... SUFFER!!! HOT!!! BEHTAHAN!!! Therefore after one day, i make a very crazy and also can describe as obsession decision which is go back kl to cool down myself for only two days...haiz... but the problem is i need to take bus back to kampar again after two days...alone...T.T...26/5/2010
I take bus back to kampar...when i reached,i took taxi to west lake home which is the place i stay,actually it was not totally not good at kampar, there is also some good side,erm...eg, got a lot of cow eating grasses, i know that is not my business.haha! But it
When i reached my house, my friend preparing the ingredient that use for steamboat. ya...dun doubt about it...STEAMBOAT...they sot jor...but i also sot juga...because i also join them...Really sot de!!!
27/5/2010
Attend the ptptn's talk...it was so boring.And we have left Felicia behind,we din brought her to the talk,hahah...becz we dunno she wan to go...
Sue Fien reached d.....finally our kai xin guo,come le...happy day...^^ate curry chicken's roti,that make all of us cry...wakakak,because it was too hot lar...
Cycle to Utar then when i wan to stop and call carol and tell her Utar close today then my bicycle fall down and force down onto my thigh...this is call SHUI!!!SO now my leg got a big bruises that look like a man...scary !!! when my fren told me i also very scare...
After we went to the only entertainment place in kampar which is Tesco, we went back with a tired mode...but we dint slp,we chit chat,sot blat,and laugh!!!38 dao...
2.45a.m like that we cycle to yamcha ,hahaah!!!omg...crazy...5.00a.m i juz slp...
29/5/2010
8a.m wake up...i only slp for 3 hours...haha...i wake up to cook mee hoon for my housemate,after that i wake them up and ask them finish my mee hoon,but they seem like terpaksa !!!really gek si wo la!!!but nvm la...after that they say the mee hoon nice~~~hahah...eh...sure la,i put so many effort on it leh!!!
ok la...until here...this is my life...hehe^^thx for viewing my blog...♥
2.45a.m like that we cycle to yamcha ,hahaah!!!omg...crazy...5.00a.m i juz slp...
29/5/2010
8a.m wake up...i only slp for 3 hours...haha...i wake up to cook mee hoon for my housemate,after that i wake them up and ask them finish my mee hoon,but they seem like terpaksa !!!really gek si wo la!!!but nvm la...after that they say the mee hoon nice~~~hahah...eh...sure la,i put so many effort on it leh!!!
ok la...until here...this is my life...hehe^^thx for viewing my blog...♥
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