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理所当然
好多人都会抱着理所当然的心态去做人...
别说我没有...我也是,但是自从我看了一本佛书,我慢慢地改变了...
那本书说到:"如果有人对你好,你觉得是理所当然，天经地义，不容置疑的话,那你那份感激的心就会顿时消失得无影无踪..."让我大胆地为这本书打个比方吧.一位母亲劝女儿少吃点,如果女儿的心态是:"她当然要我少吃点咯,如果我少吃点,她就可以在朋友面前炫耀她女儿的身材有多么棒.其实事实才不是这样呢,其实母亲是担心女儿的健康才会叫她吃少点.不要每次认为我妈妈当然要对我好咯,因为我是她女儿嘛...我的我的,事实上她真的是你的吗?就很像"我老公",他真的是属于你的吗?我妹妹当然就一定要帮我做工咯。。。其实事实是这样吗？我的！！！我的！！！其实没有一样是你的，他们迟早会离开你，你出身是两手空空，敢问你死后能带着什么而死吗？往往这世上就是有很多人不懂得感激，什么都觉得理所当然。其实要感激并不是很难,只要抱着珍惜每一段他人给你的一切,不要事事抱着理所当然的心,自然而然就会发现你身边的人其实对你不差.
在我身边的人，我希望你们看完了后会有所思考，珍惜身边的人。其实我更希望*会看到及有所体会，不要再觉得你没有错，旁人已经帮你了，不是人人都想找吵架，我也很明白你的立场和为人，只不过有时说话不要那么理所当然，觉得我们一定要帮助你，好好的聆听，聆听才是你现在最需要的，金钱不是全部。。。珍惜眼前人。。。
My Sem Break...
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Yup...Is always true that we said"休息是为了走更长远的路"...So when u plan to have a long way to go, before that u must have a rest...hehe^^...
This sem break i feel like very boring... but i like bored...Y i say so?Because i hate busy,that's all...haha...
But...I also cant say all of my sem break totally boring...I have done a lot of thing that i wish to do when i having my test... But still got a lot of thing that i wish to do during my final exam doesn't do at all... Man are always like this... When u very free, u can do what u want, u won't do... But when u are very busy, u will think "when i finish my work, i want to do this and that"... After u finish all ur test... the thing u do is nothing... because u always will say "aiya...next time la..."
Time is precious, so i hope in this sem break i can do a lot of thing that i wanted to do...
- Accompany my family & my friend.
- Bath my dog.
- Work for my brother.
- Sleep as much as i want.
- Watch "公主嫁到", "康熙来了" and some new Hong Kong drama.
- Sing K
- Watch movie
- Shopping
- Travel
- Do facial
- Bring my aunt go pray.
- Yamcha
- Go pak to.
I think that's all because my sem break have only 3 weeks...hahaha^^
Happy Holiday...
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